I am not really a writer. I am an ex-diesel mechanic - a practical person by nature. I am a hands-on guy. Well, less so since becoming a double-amputee with more health challenges than can be counted on one hand. But still, I help wherever I can to the best of my ability. To feel that I still have some worth I wash the dishes, floors and car. I vacuum our flat every day. I help Tanja with her amazing products by bottling, labeling and then cleaning up. Then I rest a while. I possess another very unique talent too. According to behavioral observations it's called the "Taboo Fluency" Factor: The ability to generate a wide variety of swear words correlates positively with overall language ability and verbal IQ. Articulate speakers use swearing as a rhetorical tool to communicate with maximum effectiveness rather than a crutch for missing vocabulary. In other words, I am a f***ng genius! Writing became a way for me to express my inner frustrations and release my restless ...
Life after amputations plus physical and financial loss is a journey that requires resilience, determination, and a positive mindset. Don't forget the importance of humor. Embrace the change, seek support, set goals, find your passion, practice self-care, and choose happiness and hope. You are defined by the strength and courage you possess within yourself. This is our story.